Ménage a trois?

The conservative 50's gave way to an era of sexual revolution and explicit freedom in the 60's, where sex was sex and people literally got into the 'swing' of things with the art of partner swapping alive and well, while the 70's saw us 'blowing' away our sexual inhibitions

We where told in the 80's that anal sex was a 'whole lot of fun' and in the 90's women 'came' out on top as the reverse cowgirl rode her way into bedrooms across the globe.

But the naughties saw a different type of sexual trend being born where 3 in a bed was no longer a crowd and people where literally saying roll over. Ménage a trois was the new dish on the menu for sexually indulgent people everywhere. Couples introduced a guest star to their beds for one night only, while saucy singles offered themselves up as the extra ingredient in a sex filled sandwich.

However the end of the naughties gave way to two new phenomenas; a decade that didn't have a catchy ring to it and a new twist on the idea of threesomes. No longer did this three-way adventure involve 6 plump butt cheeks, but instead those extra pair of hands where replaced with the not so softly touch of a hidden agenda.

Most notably this new sexual trend has become widely publicised in the lives of our illustrious celebrities, as laid bare in excruciating detail on the front pages of our newspapers. Enveloped between the 4 writhing legs of the entangled lovers is that bed partner whose caress is longer lasting than any sweet filled kiss and it can ruin marriages, careers and over all lives.

A hidden agenda can be brought to the scenario by any of the participants and it is there not to seek sexual gratification but to gain all else that it can. Instead of tasting skin wet with sexual excitement it is tasting its proposed 15 minutes of fame. While the embracing lovers are being swept away by each others passion the hidden agenda is being swept away by the idea of getting one over on a spouse they feel has neglected them.

The climax for the hidden agenda is not sexual fulfillment but the accumulation of notoriety, financial gain and personal gratification (while most of the rest of us think we are lucky to squeeze an orgasm out of the situation).

This new sexual trend pushes the boundaries even further than before and raises the stakes to a whole new level. It would appear that only the more adventurous and sexually confident of us would be indulging in it but when you think of it, are there ever only two of us in bed or are we always having a threesome, after all people always have hidden agendas!

When dating online remember that sometimes people have hidden agendas too so make sure to ask the right questions and plenty of them!